An interview with Angela
Describe yourself.
I'm a pretty normal 23 year old. I work full time and I like to go out a lot with friends. I'm kinda wild but also kind of calm. So party girl, good girl, and laid back.
Describe the best date you had with a guy, and why.
I met a guy at a bar one time and he didn't ask to go home with me or anything like that. He called me the next day and asked to take me out but he wouldn't tell me where. He took me to a very nice dinner and then took me to a comedy show. It was such a fantastic time, he was a gentleman, he was goofy, and he really showed me that he wanted to be on that date with me and that he didn't want to be anywhere else. It was great.
Describe what a guy did to turn you off, and why it turned you off.
This is just a general thing that I've noticed about a lot of guys. One thing that I remember that a guy did wrong was call and call and call and call and never stop. I don't get annoyed, I get pissed off! I end up answering the phone angry and mad at the poor guy because he won't leave me alone. If I don't answer my phone the first two times, just leave a message and I'll call you back if I want to. That's what voice mail is for, so you don't HAVE to call a billion times. Calling TOO much makes a guy seem desperate and clingy, which most girls find unattractive. When I get up the courage to call a guy, I leave him a message with my phone number and when I called. That way he can call me back and I don't have to bombard him with too many calls. Please call the girl once, maybe twice if you really like her but then take a hint if she doesn't call back. It's not the end of the world, at least now she has your phone number and if she gets over herself (ha ha) she'll call you when she's ready.
Any other tips?
Girls don't necessarily want bad boys! Women only want "bad boys" because they are very masculine. But women also want a guy who will be sweet to her and thoughtful of her. So I tell my friends, "Look, you have to be sweet, considerate, and kind but at the same time, be confident. Confidence is attractive to any gender but for a man to be confident, makes him seem more masculine."