An interview with Jill
You are about to tell a story about how a guy "got it wrong." But what is wrong to a young girl, or a party girl, may not be wrong to a older woman, or a divorcee, etc. So, describe yourself at the time (party girl, bad girl, looking to settle down, etcetera):
single ~ not wild but like to have fun ~ looking for a relationship
Give an example from your own life of how a guy can lose a woman on the first date.
We sat down for a drink and some food. As we sat and talked he kept staring at me (which freaked me out) and kept telling me how wonderful I was, and how he could tell me 100 great things about me. The thing that freaked me out was that he didn't know me - he only spoke to me about 1 hour before this in person and a few emails... how could you claim to know so much about someone you truly know nothing about? So needless, to say, that was the end for me... my cousin was coming to the place and this guy wouldn't leave before he got there, I think he wanted to check out who was meeting me. He just gave me that "single white female stalker" creepiness.... If he wants to actually get a companion, he needs to calm down and back off a bit.